bull_elephantAn animal reserve had rescued a number of baby male elephants from poachers who had poached their parents.  The baby males were juveniles.  They were bullying the other animals on the reservation, and even killing them.  Those who ran the reservation finally made the agonizing decision to have the juvenile elephants killed due to their relentless aggressive behavior.

However, just as they were about to put the elephants down, one of the experts on elephant behavior decided to try one more strategy  for taming the juveniles.  He brought grown male elephants to the reservation and placed them with the young elephants in the hopes that the elder males would discipline the juvenile boys, and teach them proper behavior, etiquette, etc.  It worked.

Once the males were put with the juveniles, the adult males immediately began to discipline the younger males.  The adults bumped the juvenile elephants when they misbehaved, intimidated them if they were rude to other animals, yelled at the juveniles to make them follow and comply with the older males' behaviors, and used a number of other disciplinary measures to teach the juvenile elephants to act properly.  It took only a couple of weeks before the juveniles stopped misbehaving. 

Our young men need more Bull Elephants. Think about it.

learning_basicsOUR MISSION: "To infect young urban men with a sense of adventure and hope based upon Christian Principles".

Our dream is to take our love of adventure and the outdoors and use it as a vehicle to make
a positive difference in the lives of young urban men and teenagers. We have developed a dynamic faith based program that contributes to young men better understanding the responsibilities that God holds all men accountable for.

Our goal is to personally expose 300 young men and teens in the next 12 months to the joy and wonder of outdoor adventure and to begin the path towards being responsible Christian Men. Kayaking, biking, fishing , and camping are some of the activities we are providing.

We use the wilderness setting as a back drop for discussions about what does it mean to be a responsible, christian man.

  • vsm-sm-Old_men_teaching_young_menHow do men handle responsibility
  • The value of family
  • Goal setting
  • Conflict resolution
  • Basic communication skills
  • Leadership
  • Dealing with fear

 

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APRIL_2007_008Here is yet another  study which confirms the importance of fathers in children's lives. In the December 1, 1998 issue of The Wall Street Journal, Maggie Gallagher's article Fatherless Boys Grow Up Into Dangerous Men reports on a study by the University of California's Cynthia Harper and Princeton's Sara McLanahan.

Using the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth database, the records of more than 6,400 boys were studied over a period of approximately 20 years of their development. According to the Wall Street Journal story, the study

 ...controlled for family background variables such as mother's educational level, race, family income and number of siblings, as well as neighborhood variables like the proportion of female-headed families in the neighborhood, unemployment rates, median income and even cognitive ability.... Boys raised outside of intact marriages are, on average, more than twice as likely as other boys to end up jailed, even after controlling for other demographic factors. Each year spent without a dad in the home increases the odds of future incarceration by about five percent.

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Lady's Camping Trip

What happens when Inter-City Moms have a wilderness experience? Click on image for details.

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It costs $184.98 on average per day or $67,520 per year to keep an juvenile inmate in prison (Orange County, Florida)

RMO's goal is to keep them out!

Why We Do What We Do..

Inter-coastal Kayak Trek

Ted and Lawrence on a 60 mile kayak trek on FL inter-coastal waterway. Running about 1 1/2 miles off shore. 

The RMO Strategy:

MooqyOur unique, 12 month wilderness mentoring program utilizes a wilderness survival training methodology to help at-risk youth to learn life changing behaviors.

Our tough love approach is coupled with a well designed skills development regiment.

  • Anger Management
  • Leadership Development
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Character Development
  • Communication Skills
  • Problem Solving Skills
  • Physical Fitness
  • Obesity management
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